What is dating?
Dating for most of us who want to date is finding the right person who shares your interest. It allows you and the one you love to go places that you would like to see. Dating brings on different emotions that you wouldn’t get if you went out with your regular friends. Is dating a requirement? No, some people don’t care for dating. They are just happy with being by themselves or with friends. It is hard to communicate about your experiences with those who don’t care for dating. Is dating hard? Yes, it can be hard. Many people date multiple people to try to find the right person. It can go on and on that nobody really meets the person they would like to have in their lives. After a good while, people may decide not to date at all because they aren’t having any success in the area of dating. Is dating like going to school? Yes, it can be. It is an on going learning process. Everyone you meet you learn something different. Hopefully, you would gain more maturity in who you choose to date. There are people who don’t mature at all from their experiences. You are constantly being tested when you date. You have to make decisions on what you expect, need, and desire from the other person. You will then have respect for yourself causing the person you meet to respect you as well. Who are you? Are you a fast person or a slow person? Majority of the time a fast person is a very worldly person. They tend to know the language of the world. They could have had many relationships, most of them bad. They could have children with multiple dads as well. If you don’t know the language or life style, chances are you will not have any relationships with this crowd. Your personality and life style will make a big difference if you will be a part of this group. A slow person is the total opposite. They have very little understanding of the outside world that would allow them in with people who are not like them. A slow person may not have relationships. If they do, they may not have as many as a fast person. Even if the person brings them around family, the relationship may not be noticed. Most people in family will not believe that a slow person can also be loved. There are times when it isn’t so bad. The slow person in time will catch up to the fast person. They may even gain more wisdom for taking it slow. They will and could have more than one relationship allowing them to have different experiences. Look up, they may even be giving advice to their friends. They could even give advice to their friend that could be a fast person as well. Their friends would have more respect for their advice then possibly those in their family and others that see them as someone that doesn’t have the ability to understand about life situations. Who would you like to be? Possibly, a little of both would be nice because you can see and understand the world. You can then create a person with wisdom. It doesn’t mean you need to experience everything. Understanding what’s around you is good, as well as, basic life experiences. No matter if you are fast or slow, everyone can have the chance to learn and experience as much of the world as they can. You can also find people to place in your life that believe in you. Those are the people you want in your life. They believe in you. In time when things start moving, you may begin to believe in yourself. Conclusion These are some questions and answers about dating. These are thoughts that I have had over time. I want to share them with you. Don’t worry, I don’t know it all. I am still learning with you as well. I hope you enjoy getting some information about what you can do to enjoy those around you.
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